Dating Experiences

As a man, meeting the right woman through online dating can be a challenge. Often these dating experiences are very frustrating, and you have to pick yourself up again and again to find the courage and nerve to meet attractive women.

Here is a short report on dating experiences as a man that can help you in your search for a partner.

Dating experiences: where do I find the right woman?

It's remarkable to see how disreputable online dating platforms were a few years ago and how these platforms have gradually crept into our everyday lives. Back then, dating apps were only mentioned behind closed doors; nowadays every second person seems to use them openly. Nevertheless, in some respects it can make sense to be conservative. Maybe you should also try simply meeting women in your everyday life. If you look for the right situations, you'll usually always find them. Even if it's just the classic of holding the door open and letting someone in with a happy smile, or even while shopping, when you're doing nothing in line anyway but waiting.

In many countries around the world, harmless communication between women and men isn't automatically considered flirting. In some countries, such as in South America, even a body-hugging dance isn't automatically flirting. In Germany, a simple "hello" is understood as an attempt to flirt, which often leads to misunderstandings and an unnecessarily tense atmosphere.

But if you can't muster the courage to push back against the prevailing opinion/attitude toward flirting, or what is understood as flirting in Germany, then online dating can be an option for you. Thank God nobody has to live alone these days if you go about it the right way!

Dating experiences: how do I have a nice flirty conversation?

When it comes to exchanging dating experiences, you shouldn't see the advice as general tips. Every situation calls for a different approach, especially since every woman wants to be treated differently from the last.

Sometimes it's enough to be the "cool guy". Others look for the sensitive or intelligent type. To make your future conversation with your dream woman easier, you should know which type of woman is the right one for you in the first place and whether you have the character traits it takes.

You don't necessarily have to be the extroverted type to flirt coolly. But if you don't know what makes you who you are as a man and whether she's the right woman for you, you'll make life unnecessarily hard for yourself during a date. Not even the best flirting tips can help you there.

What do women pay particular attention to in men?

- A well-groomed appearance
- Pleasant manners
- Confident presence
- Not taking yourself too seriously as a man in some things